Figure out what to do with your life (4 unusual steps that work)

hey there welcome back to my channel today I have the best video for you I'm so excited to talk about this topic which is how to figure out what to do with your life this is gonna help you find your passion find your life purpose or even get to the next level if you're feeling stuck and you're in that space of oh my god I don't know what to do with my life which we all get that Plateau today I have four really great stops for you but a little bit different than other people will talk about and that's why they're really gonna help you in a different way if you apply them right that's always the key applying them and the last step number four is definitely the most powerful so you're not gonna want to miss that so stick around till the end. If you are new to my channel my name is Suzanne Heyn. I'm a spiritual mentor and guide for driven creatives who want to find their purpose live their purpose and make a living with their choice gifts because I believe that's not just how what we get to do but it's how it has to be and if you want more videos like this then subscribe to my channel and hit the bell so you get notified whenever I post a new video well I've used these same four tips to discover my purpose after a really long decade's long search trying to find them to discover my truest gifts connect to what they really are and of course monetize them and create the the light that I dream up where I get to give my gifts to the world help other people and make as much money as I want from that and that's what I'm here to help you do too so without further ado let me share with you the four steps so the first step is to surrender and I know that you're not me you know like this step but before we can change anything we have to accept things exactly as we are as they are and this for a lot of people is why manifestation doesn't work because they're doing it on a platform of resistance or wanting to be the present moment something other than it is or you're wanting to get something outside of you so that you can eat good enough and all that does is it just creates a sense of being stuck in a rut where you're fighting and resisting and you're taking that energy and putting it in - and you change you make and that's you know one of the reasons why and I'm getting a little ahead of myself but that's one of the reasons why things don't work or when you're stuck it's easy to get further stuck into that rut right so because at some level you don't feel safe or good enough being where you are and so the first step to all of this is to accept where you are and know that once you stop fighting life because that's exhausting right it's exhausting to fight light and so once you start render to life and accept exactly where you are then you can use that energy to create whatever you want it's like if um I always like to use an analogy of cooking dinner in the kitchen when you don't have any food this is something that happens to me quite a lot and if you're like looking through your fridge or looking to your pantry just saying there's no food there's no food there's no food then you have no idea for dinner and then you end up what I don't know eating out which is not know a huge worst-case scenario but what happens to me along the x is that then when I say okay well what do I have here what do I have in the kitchen and I find one ingredient and then another ingredient and then another ingredient and before I knew it I cooked in an amazing dinner with ingredients that I already had in my kitchen and I love this analogy because this is exactly what it's like to find your passion and live your purpose it's just one step after another and again I'm getting way ahead of myself but it's kind of hard to do steps when everything is just living and not linear it's all combined uh so but that's really what happens right you accept and trust that you have everything that you need to get to the next level that you do have all the tools within that your gifts are good enough that you have things and you know along the way you know you'll go to the supermarket and get more food or you'll take a course and get help from the mentor or you'll learn a new skill you'll get more things a long way but you have everything that you need to take that next step and so that's really what surrendered us surrender is a process of opening up to the food that's already in your kitchen and to all the opportunities and blessings that are already in your life that you're not advantage of because you're just looking around saying I don't have this I don't have this which is a place of laughs right it's a place of not not and from a manifestation perspective we don't create things to feel good enough we receive a reflection of what we already are and so when you recognize through surrender that you already are not and that everything is perfect as it is then your intuition speaks and then you receive the guidance to take that next step so that's really step to follow your curiosity which was a great sort of turn that I learned from Elizabeth Gilbert's book big magic with the follow your curiosity and take the next step a lot of times people dismiss the next step because they don't know where it'll go but I love that Martin Luther King jr. quote you don't need to see the whole staircase to take the next step and so this journey of figuring out to do with your life is during me living her purpose I am your passion making a living with your truest yes it's really a journey of trust and you're not gonna make it very far you don't trust when you don't trust to end up cleaning holding on and resisting so trust and surrender are so closely linked and I was looking for my passion and my life purpose I eventually started my blog but that wasn't the first thing that I did my next step was actually I did random things like take a jewelry making class and I took like tennis lessons things that I never got ended up doing again but the key is that it got me into a really playful place with light so I was playing and exploring and just from this place of feeling good enough and see exactly where I was and then from that place I ended up starting my blog at which to keep my life purpose but or my my business right there's a separation between that which I can talk about in another video it's kind of a whole other topic but when I started my blog it was totally different from what it was what it is today I sucked it first and I think that what I was doing and I didn't know my voice I didn't know what I was gonna write about so I just did whatever came to mind I took the next step and I trusted that as long as I kept showing taking that next step and taking that next step always moving it's my fear always expanding and staying in touch with my my vision uh it would take me where I wanted to go and it has and every time again things felt stuck are not good I repeat the same process right because when we feel stuck then we ends up resisting and so we can either identify with that resistance and keep sending our wheels and going deeper or we can say okay I am RAM reason life is helping me it's trying to teach me something this is an invitation to rise up into the next level surrender totally let go and then let your intuition speaks and what is the next step is it to start a blog is it's a hire a mentor is it to just start painting and again you don't have to know where it'll go oftentimes you don't you just take that next step and a lot of times people get stuck because they don't take that next step they're waiting for I don't know a big sign from God you know and sometimes that happens but a lot of times it's just a gentle nudge hey do this what if you did that and then going ahead and just and just doing it right what's the worst that can happen at least you're getting into motion right you're getting to motion and then as we're creating that momentum then things grow from there so step three is a little bit more something practical than you do in your journal I want you to get clear on your values get clear on what you like to do not just your gifts not just but your good Apple what you like to and get clear on your non-negotiables fair life so this is really important because it's sort of like the GP apps that you put into you know Google Maps or whatever into your soul so so for me you know my values of gifts and bigger vision was you know I like to write I wanted to share my ideas with the world I wanted to have the freedom to travel I don't really feel called to do a lot of like in-person things I really like the idea of making money online and running my business that way I just wanted to have a lot of freedom I don't like things on my schedule I like to spend hugely in a server too I like to spend my days pretty much alone just thinking reading writing earlier version of me might have said that's impossible you can't live that life how are you gonna make money doing that but living your purpose is about being who you really are and the way of making money is on as part of that so yeah you want to identify your truest gifts and I don't exchange for monetary value but what's most important first is to get clear on the foundation which is your values and how you want to live so just getting clear on that and I tell my clients you don't have to see again you know 500 feet ahead another analogy for you it's like driving in a car when there's fog right there's really heavy fog you might only be able to see five feet in front of you but you still can get to your destination if you just keep focusing on that next five feet so if that's all you can see right now that next five feet get clear on that and then that is part of what will help you create your your life your dream light and so when you kind of you're sort of just setting that right as like conditions for how you want to live and then from that your soul will guide you forward hey what about you how you do this and tell you evaluate write different options and choices so if you have if you're a contemplating between two different ideas and you're not sure which direction you want to go then you can just take a step back and say you know maybe they're both good maybe there is no right or wrong a lot of times there isn't right or wrong it's just all based on what you want and we're just all conditioned to not trust ourselves or to not trust our desires then you can entrust your desires so just ask yourself what do I really want if anything was possible what would I do what would my next step be I mean clear on your values and what you really want to do and also of course sometimes you'll have to go out of your comfort zone but being clear on those things being clear on who you are will help you take those next steps you know for example I could have just as easily continued my career as a freelance writer you know it wasn't really fulfilling me which it is one good reason not to do it anymore but there were other different things right because one of my big values and goals is how I see the world in a different way and I like to share that and as a freelance writer I was always just parroting back other people's perceptions of the world or a dirt the good work that they were doing and that is what ultimately made that not fulfilling so if you're feeling stuck or you're not liking your current situation that can help give you really important information to move forward what exactly is it that you don't like and in what exact way are you not feeling fulfilled and then have that as a new requirement going forward and as you're engaging in the world and follow your curiosity make sure that every all the new steps that you're taking have contained in it those essential ingredients so comment below and let me know what is your big gift or value or what is something that you really want to have in a career that you think right now no way that's not possible just write it up below and let me know what you're really wanting from your life so number four and this is the most important step tune into the energy of finding your purpose and your passion so this goes back to the first point about surrender right because a lot of times when we take action from the system's whatever action we take the energy that we fuel into that action influences the results of that action so if you are taking action based on resistance you're not wanting to be where you are or not liking where you are you're creating conditions to create more of that energy and emotion and so this is surrender is important because it opens you up to your intuition the next steps but it's also important because it shifts your energetic state so it's really important to always take action from a place of openness and peace and joy and expansion because then you're creating more of that this can really help you to when you're thinking about weighing different options or if you're not sure which direction to take think about how each feels in your body and which feeling you want to feel more of which feels like resignation right you don't want to take action feels like resignation because that will just create more of that take action that feels exciting that feels like flow maybe even a little scary but that you feel deep down okay this is the right action to take so indecision is also an energy right so when you're feeling indecisive the worst thing that you can do is to wallow in that indecisive energy so if you were on the other side of this how would that feel or if you aren't feeling in the sites and you felt clear what would you do then what action would you take that so you tap into the energy of confidence and hope and triumph you know read a book or watch a motivational video or do whatever you have to do to get into that energy and then take action from that energy and you will create the results that you want right and again just taking the next step and trusting that as you take the next step in the next up in the next step you will go exactly where you are supposed to be so tell me below what emotions do you really want to feel when you are living your purpose and following your passion what is it that you really want to feel is it confidence is it fulfillment is it recognition is it success how the success feel in your body what are the emotions that you want to feel comment below and let me know I love hearing from you and if you liked this video subscribe to my channel and hit the bell so you get notified when I release new videos if you would like a way to really drop in your body and surrender head to the link below or you can go to my website and got a powerful meditation called the feel and awareness meditation this is the world's most powerful meditation for emotional healing it'll help you connect your part release any stuck or heavy energies that you're feeling and help you really connect to the core who you are so you can take the right action to create the results in your life that you're looking for and also comment below and let me know what questions you have about this topic what other things are you wrestling with or traveling with that you'd like to point on that would be so helpful so I know what videos to make for you to really help you along your journey so thank you so much

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